Our Story is Yours Too

Girl Check wasn’t created in a boardroom. It was born from a truth we’ve all lived: dating is risky when girls don’t have each other’s warnings. We’ve been swapping stories in group chats, crying over screenshots, and picking up the pieces alone — until now.

We’re building something different. A space to share truth, protect each other, and take the guesswork out of modern dating. Intuition is powerful — but information is even stronger.

Hi, I’m the founder of Girl Check.

This idea came from my own story. A long one. I’ve been in more situationships than I can count. Over and over again, I believed someone cared — only to be ghosted, disrespected, or replaced. Every time, I thought it would be different. Every time, I was wrong.

When it keeps happening, it’s hard not to think the problem is you. Like you’re the common denominator. In all reality it gets exhausting — but what I’ve learned is….they’re the pattern. Most of them aren’t doing this to one girl — they’re doing it to many — and if we can warn each other before it happens again? We change dating for the better.

One of my hardest relationships was with my first and only real boyfriend. He was emotionally and physically abusive. After we broke up, I found myself reaching out to his ex — not out of drama, but desperation. I needed to know if it was him, or if he just treated me that way. She admitted she had wanted to warn me, but decided against it. She didn’t want to seem bitter or be judged by exposing the truth.

That moment stuck with me — Because silence didn’t protect me, it left me unprepared. I kept thinking, what if we weren’t all walking around blind?

A few months later, I met someone new. He was kind, funny, respectful, and made me feel like I truly mattered. He took me on dates, I met his friends, and he made me feel secure. For about three weeks, things were great, until— you guessed it — he just stopped putting in effort. No explanation, No goodbye. Just snaps every 8 hours. This one hurt. Not just because of him — but because of what it made me feel about myself.

When you never know where you stand with someone — it can be detrimental to your self-worth. When someone doesn’t have the emotional capacity to treat others with respect, the damage doesn’t just end with one girl. That’s why this app matters. It’s not just helpful — it’s necessary.

Girl Check wasn’t something I wanted to build. It was something I needed. For the girls like me. The ones who loved too hard, trusted too soon, confused potential with proof, got hurt quietly, and moved on without warning the next girl — because we didn’t have the space to.

Now we do.

Girl Check is for every girl who’s ever said, “I should’ve known.” This isn’t just an app. It’s a tool, a movement, a reminder: You’re not crazy — and you’re not alone.